My Story

Hi, I'm Amber

I'm a wife and a mom to two boys. One plays baseball and the other plays football, so most weekends you'll find me cheering from a folding chair beside a field somewhere. Home is seven acres in the Texas Hill Country that we share with two Highland cows and two Nigerian Dwarf goats. For almost 20 years I've worked as a behavior analyst. And when we can slip away from all of it, I go looking for new places and the history and culture that come with them.

Then, July 2026 handed me something I never asked for. I'm living with cholangiocarcinoma, a rare cancer of the bile ducts.

This site is where I tell that story out loud. Partly for my family and friends who want to follow along. Partly for the stranger out there searching this diagnosis at 2am the way I did. If that's you, come sit with me. You are not alone.

Amber with her husband and two sons sitting together on a boat on the water
How It Started

The Summer That Changed Everything

  1. 01 Spring 2026

    The Clues I Explained Away

    The first clues were easy to explain away. The constant itching I blamed on the Texas sun and getting older. The weight loss I credited to healthier habits. Then one morning my eyes were yellow, and there was no explaining that away.

  2. 02 July 17, 2026

    They Found A Mass

    My yellow eyes got me sent straight for blood work, and those results set off every alarm bell. From there it was on to the hospital for imaging. A CT scan, an ultrasound, and an MRI found the reason. There was a mass in my bile duct.

  3. 03 July 21, 2026

    One Day Became A Week

    I was sent back to the hospital to undergo an ERCP, a procedure meant to get a closer look at the mass and take a sample of it. Instead there was a complication, and one day in the hospital became a week. Bile duct tumors sit in a hard place to reach, and it took several attempts over several procedures before my team could get a sample good enough to test.

  4. 04 July 30, 2026

    It Finally Had A Name

    The biopsy results came back, and the mass finally had a name. Cholangiocarcinoma. It looked like early stage, and nothing pointed to my lymph nodes, though more testing would tell us for sure. We crossed our fingers. Scary words and hopeful words in the same breath.

  5. 05 August 2026

    Where I Am Today

    My care team is in place. MD Anderson is heading my care, in coordination with UT Austin and the Texas Liver Institute. With something this rare, experience matters, and now I have it on my side. The rest of this story unfolds in the journal.

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What I Want You To Take From This

Push for answers. If your body is telling you something is wrong, keep asking until someone listens. Rare does not mean impossible, and early does not happen by accident. It happens because somebody kept pushing.

Green Is For Bile Duct Cancer

Kelly green is the awareness color for cholangiocarcinoma. If my story teaches one person the warning signs, or nudges one person to push for that extra scan, this site has done its job.

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